As Paganism grows our communities become more family oriented and pet friendly as well. We are seeing more gatherings, festivals and rituals (large and small) that allow dogs … under certain rules, of course. Even if it is simply Pagan Pride Day at your local public park or a private ritual in a friend’s backyard, a Pagan’s pooch might be there. Even if you aren’t attending Pagan events, you might be taking your dog camping or hiking this year. If you don’t have a dog, you might still encounter a dog or more while camping,

My dogs know thier "ritual manners"
hiking and attending outdoors Pagan events. There’s also the possibility of a service dog being in attendance.
My old dog is too old to be kennelled now, most kennels don’t like taking on elderly dogs. She’s also getting more confused and less interested in much more than lying at my feet. She has lots of experience with camping and festivals and even in her advanced age, she knows her manners. However, she just isn’t interested in meeting new people anymore. She’s happy to be around people, she just doesn’t want to be petted. She doesn’t bite, though she will give warning if someone is pushing her buttons, as will I.
Some of this stuff might be review, but as the season of outdoors activities enters full swing, it is worth a reminder.
Service Dog Etiquette
Service dogs aren’t just for the blind; they assist folks for everything from epilepsy to autism.
The simplest rule of thumb is this: Leave the service dog be, he’s working. This also goes for canine police officers and search & rescue dogs etc. If you really, really need to pet that dog ask first.
It is not polite to inquire after the service dog person’s disability.

It’s easy to spot a service dog
Do not whistle or call to the dog.
Service dogs always have a right to be wherever they are.
Never make assumptions about the individual’s intelligence, feelings or capabilities.
Please give a service dog and their person the right of way.
How to Greet a Dog Properly
I swear that growing up, my brother and I were the only kids who knew how to do this. Amongst the kids we knew, we were also some of the few who had never gotten bitten by a dog. Here are the steps to properly greet a dog you do not know or do not know well. My mother (a dog trainer) used to call this “how to shake hands with a dog” when teaching kids and families.
If you don’t like dogs, or are afraid of them, simply put yourself on the other side of the person from the dog, politely tell the owner you have a fear/allergy to dogs and walk away.
Ask the owner for permission to greet the dog.
Greet the dog verbally “Hullo there pretty girl”
Crouch down to be closer to the dog’s level. Do not bend over the dog as some dogs may find this to be a display of aggression or dominance. Hold out you hand in a loose fist or open palm at roughly the same height as the dog’s head. Or, simply stand still and let the dog decide if he wants to say “hullo” of his own accord.
Nervous dogs may like to approach your side more than approaching you front on.
Allow the dog to approach you, do not approach the dog. Respect his personal space.
Allow the dog to sniff your hand, getting your scent. You can verbally encourage the dog at this point. “That’s a nice dog”

Dog greeting. Click for full size. Illustration was done by Lili Chin of Doggie Drawings..
If the dog growls, raises his hackles, shows his teeth, seems overly stressed, avoids looking at you or walks away from you, do not persist. Simply back away and carry on, the dog does not want to greet you.
Some dogs will sniff your hand but not wish to be petted (my old girl is one such). A dog that wants to be petted will indicate this desire by wagging his tail, looking at you, and by stepping closer. He may even rub against your hand or come right up to lean against you.
It’s best to scratch under the chin before you reach for the rest of the dog. A dog who wishes to have his head, rear end, back or belly petted will offer it to you in a pretty obvious manner.
Do not rough house with a dog you just met. Your own dog may like to a little rough and tumble play or good hard pats on the back, but another dog might not.
Do not yell, screech or carry on. Do not run, jump, dance or wave things around. Be calm and relaxed and use you “inside voice” you never know how an unknown dog might respond or how easily spooked he is.
Don’t take forever. Pet owners have places to go and people to meet. While they may wish to chat with you, they may also need to carry on with what they were doing.
Most well loved family dogs will give you plenty of indication that they are nervous, uncomfortable or just indifferent, you just have to pay attention.
When Encountering Dogs that are Not Yours
Some basic rules of thumb for encountering dogs can be counterintuitive. We love dogs so much, it’s natural to spot one and want to rush over to greet it. It’s natural that if you see a dog that is injured to want to rush over and help it. However, this is not always the wisest course of action. Even the smallest and most well socialized dogs can bite or become frightened in certain circumstances. Before following that instinct to help or greet a cute pooch, pause for a moment and listen to your common sense and caution.
Keep in mind that at a park or campground a dog will feel a little bit out of sorts. A dog you meet on a hike might respond differently to you than how he would if he met you on his own turf. Look to the owner for guidance and respect any instructions they offer you.
Remember that you can admire something, or some dog, with a “look but don’t touch” policy.
Never, ever, approach a dog without asking the owner’s permission first. Simply ask “May I greet your dog?” before you interact with the dog.
Why? Because not all dogs want to be greeted and it may not be a good time for the owner. A dog recently arrived at a park or campsite might be overwhelmed with all the goings on and not be in a good head space to greet and meet. An elderly dog might not wish to make friends, but prefer to be left alone. A dog owner might be in a bit of a rush and not have the time to allow you to greet and fuss over their pooch. A puppy might be still in training and hasn’t learned his manners yet.
If the dog owner asks you to not greet the dog, or gives you specific instructions of how to greet the dog, please respect them. Many elderly dogs have arthritis and do not like to be petted on their backs or near their hips; this is a good thing to know and to be respectful of.
My own old girl is not as excited about meeting new people as she was in her youth. Typically when someone wishes to greet her, she simply walks away, indicating her lack of interest. There has been many times where I informed a person that my dog would not like to meet than and they ignored me and tried anyways. Often with the result of them chasing (in slow motion) my old dog around as she tries her best to avoid them. I have had to take people by the hand and firmly inform them that my dog wants to be left alone.
This happens much more often at Pagan events. The reasoning that I am given by such people is that they are magickal witch-y types who have a special affinity to animals, and therefore my dog should want to love them.
If children are walking the dog, it may be best to not attempt to greet the dog at all. Greeting people can be very exciting, and a dog that is wound up may be harder for the kids to control. Kids also have a harder time telling an adult that they may not greet their dog.
Never greet a dog through a fence, over a gate or through a car window. Never greet a dog on a chain or who is tied up. Never greet a dog that is in a pen, crate or cage. A dog in such circumstances may feel threatened or fearful as a result of you sticking your hand into their territory and bite.
Do not greet unsupervised dogs.
Do not greet dogs who are wandering loose. It is far better to alert the staff or volunteers in charge of an event or campground of the loose dog and let them handle it.
If you see a dog in a dangerous situation, such as left in a hot car, alert the authorities and staff of the event or campground before taking any action yourself. Remember that a dog in a dangerous situation is more likely to bite.
If you see a dog that is injured, such as left in a hot car, alert the authorities and staff of the event or campground before taking any action yourself. Remember that an injured dog is more likely to bite or run off out of fear.
A dog will consider his campsite to be his territory, use the same proper manners when entering a dog’s campsite as you would if you were entering his home.
Never offer a dog food without permission, that dog might have allergies or be on a special diet.
For the Dog Owner
For crying out loud, clean up the poop! *grin*
Make sure you know the rules of the park, campground or property you are on. It’s not worth a fine if you get a ticket for having your dog off leash.
Inform people before you bring a pet, even if they are permitted. It’s helpful to know how many dogs will attend when planning a ritual.
Find out beforehand if dogs will be welcome in the actual ritual space or if they will have to stay out.
You are 100% responsible for your dog at all times during a festival, ritual and so forth.
Make sure you have everything you need, poop bags, water, toys, and a spare leash, before you head out.

Next we will learn how to keep the cat off of a goddess' throne in mid-ritual
Be mindful and polite of people who are allergic or afraid.
Teach your dog to mind his own manners when meeting new people.
Unless folks are happy having playing pups tearing through the ritual, put your dog on a sit or down stay behind you for the duration of a ritual.
The folding exercise pens are great when travelling.
Ask before you give your dog a piece of the ritual meal.
Don’t leave your dog unattended. Of course there are exceptions; my own old girl will curl up quietly if left in our tent for a short period of time. I’ve had dogs that are fine in the RV for a bit as well. But in these cases, the dogs are neither loose nor able to interact with other people and we are never far away.
You have the responsibility to bring a dog that is trained, happy, healthy and socialized.
Vendors and volunteers are not dog sitters. But trusted friends might do the job, even if it’s keeping pooch with them at the campfire, while you go off for a bit.
Good doggy manners will mean more and more events that you can bring your best friend too.
Here are some tips on camping with your dogs.
Be safe, have fun, take short showers, drink lots of water, bring a Frisbee for fido.
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